Are Relationships Better Than Affairs?

Friday, July 31, 2015, 15:40 [IST]

Stable relationships seem boring but they are a lot better than affairs. If you are planing to get into a secret affair, either with a married person or a single one, it is better to be warned about the consequences.

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Actually, affairs don't have longevity. They may die down sooner or later as they are mainly built upon the foundation of lust instead of love.

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The difference between relationships and affairs is only one thing: love. Trust, stability and security spring from one source called love. When there is only lust and pleasure, there would not be longevity to the relationship. This is why relationships are better than hookups.

No Guilt

In a relationship, you don't feel guilty but when you are in an illegal affair or even a plain affair, somewhere, you tend to feel guilty.

Secure

When you are in a relationship, you tend to feel secure. But when you are in an affair, you might tend to feel insecure because you know that it may end sooner or later, even though you don't want it to.

Safety

Relationships are safer than affairs in many ways. You don't need to think twice to get intimate with your soul mate but you need to think a hundred times when you get intimate with someone whom you don't know much.

No Stress

An affair especially, a secret affair tends to build up stress gradually though it gives some pleasure in the starting stages.

Respect

The society respects and recognises stable relationships. It is better to convert a relationship into marriage. An affair cannot get an official status.