Never Close The Door Of Life (An Abusive 'Ex' & A Possessive Partner II)

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Dear friend, I know that you are in a dreadful situation where even the brave hearts tremble. Seeing as once gained the warmth of the true love, it is very painful to lost it for unwanted reasons. You love your husband/wife and never want to get out of the relationship. However, your abusive ex is threatening to spoil your life for the reasons even unknown to him/her. What is the wise step that you've to take in this situation?

Talk to your close friends

Talking your innermost secrets to a close friend is the best route to find out a solution. However while choosing a friend to confess, you must be careful that he/she is not a common friend with your partner or won't cheat you at a later stage. It is always advisable to have a fake email id and to chat with a stranger since; both the parties may not know each other. Be careful at this situation on not revealing your true identity to your chat friend.

Turn to the unchallenged love

Do you know that there is someone who loves you unconditionally irrespective of your mistakes? They are none other than your parents! If your ex-lover starts threatening you, confess your past mistakes to your parents. It may be hurting for them to hear at first. However, they are matured enough to reason out the situation with your ex-lover's family and to protect you from a deadly doom.

Ex's family & friends

You must've quit the love relationship with your ex-lover but; may be in good relation with his family & friends. You can seek their help at this situation to save you from this melancholic situation. Your ex-lover may listen to their words and leave you to lead your own life.

In-laws' role

Are you one among that lucky group who are compatible with their in-laws? Then what is there to be worried about? Confess your dilemma to your in-laws and they will definitely help your family from wreckage. However it is strongly advised to ensure that they won't use your dilemmas as weapons against you.

The final and inevitable solution

Brave the path of confessing your past mistake to your husband/wife if none of the above solutions work out. Be ready to face the storm of emotions upon the already turbulent life. Even then, as the storm ends you may see the rise of a new hope. Take your partner into positive confidence and let him/her understand that he/she is the only person in your life. Your husband/wife may understand the traumatic situation that you are in and your innocent role in it. Your partner's a single assurance may bring the warmth that you had desired.

Always understand that your traumas will lead to depression as you bottle them up inside your mind. You've already spent many sleepless nights because of your ex-lover. Now, it is time for you to move forward in your life and to find the happiness in it.