Why Plunge Into A Second Affair?

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Most of us fall in love with the idea of falling in love. This though sounds true, cannot be vouched for. Matters of heart are complexed and male and female gender handle it in their own way.

Talking of men, they may be strong in physique but are not the same in heart. Boys ill-famed to be flirts, can be the most committed when in a serious relationship. But a relationship, requires much more than just commitment. It needs understanding, trust and faith. When even one of these pillars decay, the relationship falls off.

Women reportedly are much better in handling breakups but men cannot handle it without support. A man once in a relationship is so dependent on the girl that he cannot imagine a life without a female company. Most of the time it has been noticed that men out of one relationship get into another within a very short time and the second affair is often a hasty decision.

Here are reasons as to why men out of one relation fall into another -

Dependency

A boy cannot deny that he needs a female company for a stable life. Scientifically it has been proven that girl's maturity level is much higher than that of boys. Boys like to be taken care of and a girl satisfies his this wish. When a guy gets it, he submits himself to the extent that he becomes dependent. Thus, after a breakup it becomes very difficult for him to stay alone. At that time any female company for him is a relationship.

Ownership

A man's ego is a much talked about phenomenon. It has been noticed that men are very possessive about the girl in the family. Be it sister, mother or girl friend. They like to enjoy the sense of ownership on a girl. They are taking care of the family. This feeling boost their ego. Having a girl friend is a pride. After the breakup, to hold on to this pride they soon fall into another relationship.

Punishment

If the affair has come to an end because of him, then he thinks he should be punished. Often serious affairs call quits because of the family. A boy cannot stand strong before his mothers tears. Mother said no and he left his girl. This guilt makes him drive at a hasty decision. Most of the time it has been seen that, the second relation lacks love. This is his way to punishing himself for lifelong.

Winner

If the girl ditches the guy or refuses his proposal, then it hurts his ego. To prove to the girl that she is not the only one, he rushes into the next relationship. Because this relationship is out of competition and not out of love, it results into a mess. This then leads to depression and many other things.

These are few of the major reasons why men are so frequent with their relationship. If you know the fifth reason, please share it.