Friendship or Love? Teenage Infatuation

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Some people think of Teen Love and smile. It's not real love, they say. Puppy Love, they call it. Is it puppy love? Is it trial love? Is it true love? It seems that most teenagers are getting involved with members of the opposite sex as a form of entertainment. Those people, I think, have very short memories, and no longer recall the realities of their first love experiences. While few expect teen love to last a life time, that hardly makes it less real. Half or more of all adult love doesn't last a lifetime either. Teen love is very real and powerful. Perhaps at no other time in our lives are the joys and pains felt as strongly, or experienced more deeply. Who among us, after all, can ever forget our first love? Thus the first love which has happened during your teen age cannot be totally forgotten.

Is it puppy love? Is it trial love? Is it true love? It seems that most teenagers are getting involved with members of the opposite sex as a form of entertainment. But when getting involved with anyone it puts feelings on the line. A friend once told me that she was going out with a guy not because she loved him, but because she wanted something to do on weekends. When the relationship was over, she cried. Why did she cry? Was she actually in love with him? Or did this mean that she would have to pay for her own movie ticket for a while?

One of the relationships that lasted about a month (on and off) has taken several months from which to recover. It was so difficult for the girl to recover form it.What if he was my first true love? What if he is my only true love? What if I am destined to live the rest of my life alone because our fated romance died? You see, many real feelings were put on the line during that very short period of time and she was so much involved in that sort of love.

Because she was only 16 does this mean that her feelings are not mature? Is teenage love a different kind of love? I believe that teenage love is the first step to developing normal healthy relationships in the future. I've heard many people on TV talk how they will never forget their first love. Maybe that's because it taught them how to love. So perhaps teenage love is a steppingstone toward the paths we may choose in our lives. Love, whether new or old, is a way to share important things with a person you are close to and trust. All people need that. Teenagers need love more than anyone. Who else better to get love from than another teenager who's going through the same transitions that you are? Who's to say what kind of love is valid? All love is valid? This is what they had to say.

When you are seventeen you aren't really serious. There can be many stories of the teenage lovers and as such you can find that they turn out to be successful as well as not successful. Rather we find that this teenage love has more of a sexual inclination. so in a way according to me it is really not true love but there can be exceptions.