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The Fear Of Losing Loved Ones
Live with the deepest individuality that you can manage. Live to your complete satisfaction. You will lose your fear of death.
And one more thing: If you live totally, without any hangover of any feelings, when you live your emotions with great clarity and totality, you will never fear losing your family and relatives also.
You see: You fear someone's loss only because you feel you have not justified that relationship in some way in your life; you feel you have not been in it in totality; you are not ready to let go. Physical separation is only one aspect of the fear; the real reason is lack of fulfillment in the relationship.
The word 'justification' comes into relationships because you have always been taught to live for the sake of others, fulfilling their needs and desires. You always feel the need to justify relationships by doing these things. And if you don't do these things, you get into the cycle of guilt and fear. If you just live totally, with deep clarity of the whole play of society, you will never be gripped by such compulsions.
You can live with total fulfillment and still not lose out on any love in relationships. We have discussed this while talking about the Anahata chakra. The fear of physical separation is always because of a feeling of guilt with respect to that relationship. If you live totally, not with a transaction type of relationship but with just pure loving energy towards the other, there will be no room for guilt or fear. Even if the person passes away, you will continue to feel love towards him or her, that's all, never fear of any separation.
Even when you are living with the person, try to live with more clarity and awareness. Most often, relationships suffer because of insecurity and the lingering fear of losing one another. If you deeply analyze fear in any relationship, you will understand that because our relationships are just transactions of some sort, this fear is there.
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