Why Wait For Special Days To Celebrate Relationship?

Parents And Children

oi-Anjana NS

By Anjana Ns

Thursday, July 14, 2011, 14:41

Life is so busy and messy that we tend to forget the wee hours of a particular day spent with our near and dear ones. Changing lifestyle and adding to them the reasons of unsupportive attitude has become the order of the day. When we performed or did a thing once is no more in our action and memories but we are forced to manipulate it on the special days when the whole world makes us remember. The special days and dates of the calendars are more confined to emotions and actions.

From celebrating relationships like birthdays, anniversaries and other personal happenings, every special moment is concerned for just a day. Bestowing showers of love is confined to a single season (special days for loves like valentine). Even the celebration like father"s day, mother"s day and so on is a tribute that we offer for a particular evening spending some bucks on an individual. Again it is more about redefining yourself the most with the perfect choice of jewellery and outfit.

In the parallel session, we are least concerned of the emotional issues and feelings that need to be comprehend with our ideas to special days and run with all anti-parallel views for the rest of the years.

Our living schedules for celebrating relationships are prepared not by us but by the reminders that we do set up for the rest of the journey. Even reshaping the forgotten lanes is just a click away from us (saved in the mobile phones or facebook options).Well there being a feeling of others guiding us as that"s how our love and emotions on a particular account to and not always.

While the culture gap has reduced its wing under the plea of globalization there is again suitability in regard to our own convenience and comfort. We feel like celebrating the ideas and thoughts according to our choices and not of course to the want of the time. Many a times we miss that particular effect of emotions under the pressure of our works which makes the whole scenario very unjustified.

Celebration of happiness is the heart of every Indian and more clearly for every other soul until it is unbiased and unconditional. In the recent years we do celebrate leaving behind the later two terms which are heavy and justified in the long run of relationship.