Witty Ways To Please Your Mother-in-law

Marriage And Beyond

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By Anjana Ns

Monday, October 3, 2011, 17:13

Your mother-in-law can become yours if you receive her demands as commands. Take a look to know how to please your mother-in-law.

She is, afterall, a mother by law so never take things emotionally while dealing with her. The great administrator and philosopher chanakya has said that “straight trees are cut first" so try to be a little bent to be able to bend her 'like the beckham way'. Today, we will give you a few important tips on pleasing mother-in-law. Take a look.

Tips To Please Mother-In-Law

1. How To Tame The Dragon? - Always think twice during troubled situations. Words once said are said forever so be very careful while making your points clear. One of the best ways to get things done your way is by tactfully handling with a soft and smiling face. Never react to things that she expects you to freak instead be smart enough to smile and make the things in your way.

2. Make Her A Virtual Queen Bee – One of the many reasons why she would get upset with you is because you are driving the entire focus towards you and she feels that she is losing out her power. One best way to handle this is making her feel like a queen in a few occasions (like family get-togethers) by preparing her favorite food, gifting her with stuffs and remembering her birthdays.

3. Be Honest – It is always best to be honest as truth always wins. Transparency will avoid unwanted complications. Thinking and acting differently will be an advantage to your mother-in-law to pin point your behavior and attitude.

4. Respect – Talking with respect will always pay as it would be impossible for her to say know when you are requesting with kindness. Valueing her age and experience will someday have to make her think otherwise (positive towards you) and change her impression about you. Please mother-in-law with words if not with gifts as it will pay back good results and will ease you to handle relationship.