Friend, Learn To Deal With Annoying People!

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oi-Denise Baptiste

By Denise Baptiste

Wednesday, March 23, 2011, 17:25

The other day I sat reading intensively while my friend sat beside me watching her favorite programme on television, enjoying herself, the phone near the closet rang. The both of us wondered who it would be so late at night, scared and confused, she went ahead and picked up the call!

Glaring at her, she did not look happy which made me wonder was it bad news! As I walked towards her to ask her who it was and what had happened, she lent me the phone in disgust. When I said hello... the voice made my head spin and my temper rose for it was the last person I wanted to talk to.

This is one situation where most of us fear for there are some people in our lives we just do not want to talk to and they do not get the idea to buzz off!

In this situation, when you do not know what to do and how to face the person you do not want to talk to, you tend to turn to a friend or a close one in need of help. In many cases, the unwanted person in your life will not get the idea of him feeling he is not needed. So here are subtle ways to tell him you don't like your waste time.

So, as you read on, I hope these tips will help you on how to deal with annoying people.

1.Be honest and tell him he is a pain and care no less of what he thinks of you. If he is just wasting your time and you don't find him interesting then be upfront.

2.Avoidance is the best way to deal with annoying people.Make it seem that he notices the sudden change in your behavior so he gets the point that you are avoiding him. If he still fails to understand, then walk away everytime you see him approach you or give him unfriendly remarks so that he understands.

3.To deal with annoying people all you have to do stay away from him. Wherever he is, try not to be seen. This will make him realize that he is really annoying or he just might come to a conclusion you are not happy when he is around and bravo!, you have accomplished.

These are three unique and easy ways of helping you to deal with annoying people. The next time he comes up to your cabin door and starts on a conversation you know now what to do to shoo him away!