Men And Mistress

By Denise Baptiste

Tuesday, October 19, 2010, 16:25

Men and mistress, do injustice to the wife and her right over her husband. In most cases, men have a mistress at the same time claiming that he loves his wife. When caught, he claims to be in love with both. If they love the women they are married to then why do they have to have a mistress? In relationships, men cheat on their partner more than women do. The question is why?

Lets look at some of the possible reasons why men have a mistress -

1.Feeding His Ego – Marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities and rules. Just because that women is his wife, many a times he has to undermine his ego and listen to her for the sake of her position but this is not the case with the mistress. Her life is ruled by the man. He gives her all the facilities to stay with him and in turn she fulfills his wishes. The fact that another woman other than his wife has interest in him, feeds his ego.

2.Sex – Most men cheat for the sake of sex. Sex without commitment and responsibility is quite exciting for men. Sex with his mistress is for fun and excitement, where both of them enjoy the moment without strings attached. A mistress allows a man the freedom which he is denied by his wife.

3.To Fill In The Gap – With marriage comes responsibility and seriousness in life. It is said that men grow up only with their first strand of white hair. To lead a care free life, men choose to cheat and have a mistress. Most of the time it has been noticed that men have mistress who are much younger than them.

4.Looking For A Friend – Men always enjoy the company of a friend specially if it is a girl. In marriage he is a husband to his wife but he misses having a girlfriend with whom he can live life the way he did before marriage. Dirty talks, jokes, long night calls, going for secret trips etc. Mistress to men is the fulfillment of this wish.

5.Unhappy Marriage – Some men cheat on their wife just because he is not happy in the relationship. Thus, he takes shelter with another women who provides him everything which he expected from his wife. The mistress fills the space of the wife in the man's life.

Men and mistress are together for reason but a wife has enough reasons to get her husband back to herself.

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